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Big Moments, Real Conversations
As prom and graduation season approaches, many parents and caregivers of teenagers are celebrating these important milestones alongside their teens. At the same time, these events can bring new situations where alcohol may be present, making it a good time to have “the alcohol talk.”
Your Influence Matters More Than You Think
These conversations matter. Adults are often the biggest influence on whether teens choose to drink. Open, honest conversations help young people understand that you care about their well-being and that you don’t support underage drinking.
What Not to Do (Even If It Feels Right)
It’s not always easy to know what to say about underage drinking. Unfortunately, some common approaches that seem logical can actually backfire.
The Problem with Scare Tactics
Many adults rely on extreme warnings, or “scare tactics”, but research shows that these messages are often dismissed. Teens don’t see themselves as at risk for worst-case scenarios, so they dismiss these messages or even find them appealing. Scare tactics can also imply that “everyone is doing it,” which isn’t true & can unintentionally normalize underage drinking.
Why Allowing Alcohol Isn’t the Answer
Allowing teens to drink under supervision may seem like it teaches responsibility, but it can actually signal approval and lead to increased curiosity and experimentation. It also overlooks the real risks of underage drinking, including impacts on brain development, increased likelihood of risky behavior, and potential for addiction.
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